The reality is that in a Christian marriage, where the couple is growing in grace, they will figure this out along the lines of Romans 12:10: “Outdo one another in showing honor” — or outdo one another in showing grace or mercy or love or kindness or gentleness. This is the most wonderful kind of competition.

She will want to honor him by giving him what he desires. And he will want to honor her by giving her what she desires, which may be less of his desire. And they will pray, and they will talk, and they will struggle, and they will grow along the way.

Taken from http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/my-spouse-doesn-t-enjoy-sex

God is good and faithful. It was with so much joy that we witnessed our dear David marry his lovely bride, Yan Ling, in the COOS auditorium. It has been a year since David left our company to work for COOS, and we are thankful to God for the passion for youth work that He has put into David's heart, and for His timing in all things...the 2 years that David spent with us had not been an easy journey for the little start-up with steep learning curves for each one of us, we are thankful to God for giving us the opportunity to know David better during those years. We pray for God's purposes to be fully worked out in this marriage, as we continue to place our confidence in God to work out His purposes in our own marriage.

Looking back at the 10 years and giving thanks for all that God has done in our lives as a couple

• June 2009: Mun and Yin celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary with beloved family members and friends from SJSM and COOS home cells, precious people whom we have shared our lives with at one point or another. And Mun leaves Singapore Polytechnic to embark on a new chapter of his life.
  
• End 2008: God's amazing provision* of a beautiful and quiet home overlooking a park, that came with furniture, curtains and even plates and wine glasses!
• July 2007: Learnaholic Pte Ltd was birthed. This one is surely an ongoing heart-DTS for Yin...is this really God's mission field for us? At times, it seems more like a battlefield between two opposites (creator versus executor, for those who are familiar with CARE profiling).
  
• Feb 2007: First-ever SBS Night School started in Singapore. What a privilege to be part of this ministry!
• Dec 2006: Mun completed his DTS lecture phase and was finally introduced to YWAM Singapore...for better or for worse.
  
• Jun 2006: Yin completed 9.5 months of SBS and is convinced about the undying love of God for His people. Thank God too for several opportunities to teach His Word in mandarin.
• Dec 2004: God saw Yin through 4 fulfilling years as a Physics teacher in RJC. What a tremendous blessing to have taught these young men and women! Yin steps out to explore God's call to missions.
• May 2002: Mun graduated with his doctorate after re-writing his thesis with the help of his interpreter-ghost writer.
  
• June 2000: Yin completed her DTS. It was the beginning of processing God's call to missions.
• June 1999: Mun and Yin began their lives together as a married couple. Many thanks to all who helped so wholeheartedly prior to and during the wedding. Thank God for His provision of a Clementi flat in move-in condition (We didn't know then, but we bought this flat at an all-time low resale price*).